This lesbian chat room is a text room for women who like women. It is for adults, 18 or older. It is free, and you need no account and no email to join.
What lesbian chat is for
This room gives lesbian and bi women a place to talk with each other. You can flirt, talk about sex and dating, or talk about your week. The point is that women speak with women, and nobody performs for an audience.
All of it is typed: text, emoji and images. The site has no video and no voice.
Who this room is for, and who must stay out
This room is for:
- lesbian women,
- bi women,
- women who are not sure yet and want to talk with women who have been there.
This room is not for:
- men, with no exception,
- anybody under 18,
- people who sell pictures or services.
From the form to the chat on your phone
You do not register. The form has four parts: a name, a gender, a date of birth and one box to tick. The box says "I am 18 or older and I accept the terms". Tap "Chat now" and you are in the chat.
Everything runs in the browser of your phone, with no app and no password. The guide to chat rooms with no sign up explains what the site records.
Rules of the lesbian chat room
- Women only. Men who pretend to be women get removed and banned. Men who join to watch get removed too.
- No requests for a third. Do not look for a woman for your boyfriend or husband here.
- No proof demands. Do not push a woman to send a picture to "prove" that she is a woman. Report your doubt to a moderator.
- Respect bi women. Do not tell a bi woman that she is not "real" enough for this room.
- No contact details in public. The filter blocks phone numbers, links and names from other apps.
Some content is banned in every room of the site. The list has anything with minors (real or fictional), incest or family content, bestiality and toilet play. It also has trade of any kind, harassment, threats, spam, impersonation, and leaks of private messages or images.
Staying safe: men who pose as women, and other risks
The site does not see an ID, and the gender on the form is a choice. Thus a man can lie. Rules, reports, moderators and bans are the answer to that. These signs help you to find a man who poses as a woman:
- The talk goes to sex in the first two lines, and stays there.
- The person asks what you wear, or asks for pictures very early.
- A "boyfriend" appears who wants to watch or join.
- The person wants to move to another app at once.
If you see these signs, stop the talk and report the person. A moderator gets the last 20 messages with your report.
You can also set "Who can message me" to only a first message, or to nobody. Read how private message requests work to see what a stranger can send you.
Tips for a good first message in lesbian chat
Start with a person, not with a line
A good opener shows a little of you and asks a small question. It does not comment on a body.
- "Hi everyone. Femme, 29, bad at small talk. Be patient with me."
- "I came out late, at 35. Is anybody else here a late bloomer?"
- "What was the last film with a good love story between two women?"
When you want a private talk
Your first private message is a request, and you get only one line until she answers.
- "I liked what you said about first dates. Can I message you?"
Questions about Lesbian Chat
Is lesbian chat only for women?
Yes. This room is for lesbian and bi women, and for women who are not sure yet. Men are not welcome in it, also not as quiet readers. A man who pretends to be a woman breaks the rule against impersonation.
How does the site keep men out of lesbian chat rooms?
The site does not ask for an ID, so it cannot know the gender of a person for sure. It uses rules, automatic filters, human moderators and your reports. A report goes to a moderator with the last 20 messages. Bans are by account, by network address and by device.
Can I stop private messages from strangers?
Yes. Open the settings in the chat and find "Who can message me". You can pick everyone, only a first message, or nobody.
Is lesbian chat free, and do I need an account?
It is free, and there is no account. You give no email and no password. You type a name, pick a gender, enter your date of birth and tick the box. You will see a sponsored link to live cam sites, and ads can appear too.