This gay chat room is a text room for gay and bi men who are 18 or older. You need no account and no email to use it. You pick any name, confirm your age, and type.
What the gay chat room is for
This room is for men who like men. It is a place to flirt, to talk about sex and dating, and to look for a chat partner. It is also a place to talk with men who know your kind of life.
All of it is typed, with emoji and images. There is no video and no voice.
Who this room is for, and who does not belong in it
This room is for:
- gay men,
- bi men,
- men who are curious or not sure yet, and who talk with respect.
This room is not for:
- anybody under 18,
- people who come to mock, to preach or to "debate" gay men,
- people who sell pictures, shows or subscriptions.
Joining takes a name, a gender, a birth date and a tick
There is no sign up and no profile. The form asks for four things. Type a name. Pick Male, Female or Other. Enter your date of birth. Tick the box "I am 18 or older and I accept the terms".
Then tap "Chat now". The chat runs in the browser of your phone, so you install nothing.
Rules for gay chat
- No homophobia. Slurs as an attack, "jokes" about gay men and religious lectures get you removed.
- Bi men are welcome. Do not tell a bi man to pick a side.
- Do not out anybody. Do not repeat what a man told you in private. Not here, and not on other sites.
- No pressure. Do not push for pictures, a face, a body type or a role. "Not my type" is enough. Insults about age, race or body are not allowed.
- No contact details in the room. The filter blocks phone numbers, links and names from other apps in public rooms.
The site also bans some content in every room. That is anything with minors (real or fictional), incest or family content, bestiality and toilet play. You cannot buy or sell, harass, threaten, spam, impersonate, or pass on private messages and images.
Outing risk and other safety points for gay and bi men
If you are not out, your first job is to protect that. These steps help:
- Pick a clean name. Do not use a name that you use on other sites.
- Think before you send a face picture. The site deletes images after 24 hours. A screenshot on the phone of another man does not go away.
- Keep your town, job and gym to yourself. Other users see your name, gender, age and country, and that is enough.
- Know the blackmail scam. A stranger gets an explicit picture with your face. Then he threatens to send it to your family. Do not pay. Report him.
If gay sex is a legal risk in your country, be careful with every detail. The guide to staying private in adult chat gives more steps. The guide to adult chat safety and scams shows how blackmail starts.
Tips for a good first message in gay chat
Say who you are in one line
Men answer a person, not a "hey". Give your age, your mood or one fact.
- "Hi guys. Bi, 34, new here. How is everybody tonight?"
- "I am not out at home, so I like to talk here. Anybody the same?"
Ask before you go private
The first private message to a stranger is a request. He accepts it, ignores it or replies. You cannot write a second time before that.
- "Hey, you mentioned hiking. Where do you go?"
- "You seem fun. Can I send you a private message?"
Questions about Gay Chat
Is this gay chat free?
Yes. The chat and the private messages cost nothing, and there is no paid level. The site has a sponsored link to live cam sites, and it can show ads. You can ignore them and use the chat.
Do I have to be out to use gay chat?
No. Nobody asks for your real name, a profile or a face picture. Other users see the name you typed, your gender, your age and your country. The site itself records your IP address and device type for bans and abuse reports.
What happens to a person who posts homophobic messages?
Homophobia breaks the rules of this room. Automatic filters and human moderators do the moderation on this site. You can also report the person. Tap the username and choose Report, and a moderator sees the last 20 messages. A ban applies to the account, the network address and the device.
Can I share my Snapchat or Telegram in the room?
No. In public rooms the filter blocks phone numbers, links and names from other apps. A fast move to another app is the first step of many scams and blackmail cases. Stay in the chat until you know the man well.